What makes or breaks relationships?
It’s the age difference.
For example, your partner is 35 and you’re 38 years old. Within your relationship, you experience conflict which is usually enhanced by one or both partners not having the best communication skills.
Most adults have emotional, mental, and sometimes even physical issues that stem from childhood trauma. Combine this with a lack of knowledge on how to communicate this pain and you’re in for a roller coaster ride of emotions and drama.
When a person experiences trauma like mental, emotional, or physical abuse as a child something within them shuts down.
As a form of self-preservation,
the child will stop evolving on an emotional
Within romantic relationships, this pain is triggered but most times you don’t have the knowledge or the tools to address it.
You think you’re dealing with an adult but your partner’s emotional age may be just six years old. You think your conflict is between a 35 and a 38-year-old where in reality you are actually confronted with a six-year-old.
How does an adult solve a conflict with a child?
This is the age difference that causes the issues and the only thing that can help solve the problem is to create a safe space in which you allow your partner to evolve.
But that depends on your own emotional age.
If you didn’t evolve past the age of 8 yourself than your relationship develops a power struggle within immature children who are both crying for love but aren’t able to reflect, evaluate, and communicate like adults.
And thus, more childlike behaviors are used for emotional and mental manipulation.
Child cry until they get what they want.
When children are in pain, they’re unable to see anything other than themselves.
And that is OK, for children. It gets challenging and even more painful when adults are still playing out this childhood drama.
Childhood trauma is the number one reason for people not to evolve past their childhood age.
The hurt or neglected emotion will continue to manifest itself in your adult relationships until it is fully acknowledged, understood, and allowed to surface.
Through the dark, you reach the light.
The trauma you experienced as a child is a pain that you carry as an adult. It will manipulate every single human relationship until it is fully healed.
If the trauma was caused by the mother, men (women too!!) will be challenged by understanding, acknowledging, and worshiping the goddess.
It is only by learning who the Divine feminine is and allowing her Goddess energy to move freely through their entire being on a quantum level that they can find ultimate healing.
The biggest problem of the entire world population is that they do not know who the goddess is as a creator. Our world has been manipulated to neglect the divine feminine in all of her aspects.
Her sacred womb is the portal through which spirit enters the physical world.
This divine female energy lives in all regardless of gender. She is the nurturing, compassion, peace, trust, faith, hope, and unconditional love we all need more of.
In a harsh male society, men were not raised to worship women, and women were not raised to honor men.
But that’s exactly what a sacred relationship that lasts is made of. It’s about mutual worship, honor, respect, loyalty, faithfulness, and devotion.
It’s about treating each other as God and Goddess. This is the bottom line.
But as long as you are a six-year-old child in pain crying for love from the depth of your lungs all this will just be like a fairytale.
Trauma caused to people by their mother or father primarily manifests abandonment issues. Trust, faithfulness, and compassion are just a few of the most prevalent problems that will occur in their relationships.
Acknowledge the Goddess within, regardless of your gender.
Acknowledge the child within you,
regardless of your age.
This is your source of power and healing.
Reach out to Her.
Allow Her to emerge.
She guides us to that safe space
in which the inner six-year-old can evolve.
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A'HO
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