When we let go of the expectations that we have of others and to any outcome, we let everyone off the hook, giving everyone their freedom and sovereignty, releasing all attachments. We can't do it for others either, so we hold everyone accountable and responsible for their own journey, we can't do the healing for them. \
We can't make them see either. All the trying and pushing our agenda/ hopes/ beliefs etc just has the opposite effect, it creates a push-pull, instead what we can do is hold others in their highest expression/ light. This supports the energetic pathway of them making 'better' choices, if that's what is meant to play out.
Reminding ourselves that we do not know better what is right for another or not. That we don't know it all and how the bigger picture fits together in every detail and that all is serving a deeper purpose. We remember that there are many ways to walk this path and all are unique, just like we are.
We don't manipulate or try to control others and their life situations, or interfere with important life lessons, but we can offer support, non judgement and a loving embrace when they're ready whilst we walk our own unique path and stand tall in our own Truth, allowing everyone else that freedom too.Everyone has to chose this for themselves, come to their own realizations, we're not here to save anyone as such, we can't, but we're here to shine a light through our own Transformation by BEING THE CHANGE and show a possible path/ ways of how this journey might be made easier f.e.. Maybe they never will be ready, never come around, but at least we hold nothing against them, no unforgiveness, no blame, no anger that just eats away on our own inner peace, instead we're left with neutrality, love, a deeper understanding and compassion for the human condition and how all of this works.
We don't wait for them to change or come around either, we get on with our own life, knowing happiness is not accessible through another and only to be found within, we just understand that we can't change or choose who we love either. Resistance is indeed futile, especially if something is 'meant to be' then it shall be but there's nothing for us to force, push, control or manipulate. We get on with our own transformation, realizing our own self and see the blessings in any triggers brought to light, giving us the opportunity to integrate more of all that which we are. We understand that each one of us has their own unique journey to walk, which can not be compared to any other. What we can do is not give up on those we love, sending them our support energetically by seeing them happy and full-filled, and extend that out to all life everywhere because we know that if we have managed to change deeply and profoundly from within then so can any other! This is sometimes the best support we can offer others, believing in them is also believing in ourselves.
Let Divine Love show them the way, it's the short cut through!
Eternal Love & Blessings, all-ways, Ramona Quantum repost - 18.5.21
