ARE YOU READY??
There are a lot of men who are used to dealing with weak women, who
are emotionally immature, who don’t know what they want and who play
When a man meets a strong woman, he doesn’t know what to do with her.
A strong woman wasn’t born that way, she was made that way. She had
to fight and claw her way out of the depths of hell. She had to learn to
fight for herself, because no one else did. She has sat with her
darkness time and time again, and learned to become friends with it.
She’s transformed herself from victim to Victor. In fact, she can’t
stand the word victim, or anything associated with that mentality. A
strong woman is one who learned to love herself unconditionally. She
doesn’t need to seek outside of herself to fill that void. A strong
woman does not need validation from anyone to be who she is, she is who
she is- take it or leave it. And she is the most authentic, down to
Earth person you will know.
A strong woman will turn pain into power, and transmute hate to love.
She will help you understand a love you’ve never known or experienced
before. That which has no Earthly terms for explanation. A strong woman
will focus on your strengths, not your weaknesses. She will support you,
stand by your side and have your back. She will encourage you to be the
best version of yourself. And she will do everything in her power to
help you get there. She will be your light on your darkest days. She
will be that shoulder to cry on when you feel like giving up, and she
will never let you give up! She is the embodiment of the Divine balance
of Divine feminine and masculine. And a strong woman expects the same in
return from her man.
For all of the heartbreaks you have ever known while playing games
with girls, this was your training to stand beside a strong woman and be
her equal. A strong woman doesn’t need a partner to complete her, for
she is already complete. She needs a partner to be her equal. A strong
woman will never ask that much of you because she is independent,
however what she expects as her equal is to put in the same amount of
time, effort and energy she does to make the relationship magical union
of mind, heart, body and soul. A strong woman requires depth in her
relationships. Anything superficial is a huge turn off! If you show her
you can meet her where she is and be her equal, she will take you
places you’ve never been.
A strong woman will not let down her guard until she trusts you,
until you show her you can be her equal. Although she always keeps her
heart open, you will have to work to obtain the key….until she knows you
have her back as much as she has yours.
Strong women carry battle scars physically and emotionally, but a
strong woman has met with her dragons and has learned to tame them. A
strong woman will not lean on you to support her financially, she can
take care of her own business. She will require from you the things
money can’t buy. So be prepared to open your heart, be emotionally
supportive , vulnerable and be her rock in times of darkness. You will
need to have also obtained the Divine masculine/feminine balance for she
likes a man who is strong, but sweet and caring. A man who stands up
for his beliefs, but also accepts her for hers. A man who wouldn’t
hesitate to protect her like a warrior protecting his queen, but also
knows, she is just as strong and would protect him just the same.
Don’t ever let her catch you checking out another woman, because she
will never be your second best and she will never be your side chick. A
strong woman can be happy alone, because she learned the only one who
can make her happy is her. She doesn’t seek happiness outside of
herself. A partner will either add to her happiness or she will leave
you in the dust. She’s worked too hard to obtain happiness and peace. A
strong woman has put a lot of work into herself to be a better person, a
better human, a loving, caring, empathetic being, but make no mistake,
if you take her for granted and get comfortable, she will leave you in
the dust. A strong woman will expect you to continue putting in the same
effort to keep her, as it did to get her in the first place.
Be ready to be open, and vulnerable because that is what she finds
sexy as she knows it takes a strong man to be able to show this side of
himself. A man who has also put in the amount of time and effort with
his dark side and learned to tame his dragons. A strong woman will call
you out on your bullshit every single time. She is not passive
aggressive as she will tell you when and why she is upset. She will give
you a second chance to “show” her by your actions you are making an
effort to not continue doing what upset her in the first place. But she
rarely gives out thirds. Your words will carry little weight without the
actions to back it up. You will need to walk your talk. A strong woman
commands respect without speaking a word, and if you disrespect her she
will leave you in the dust. She, in return, gives you the same respect
A strong woman walks her talk. She is not a pushover, and she is not a
doormat. She is confident in her own skin, in her gifts, abilities and
in her life mission. She is a girls girl, and she supports other strong
woman and wants to see them succeed as much as her.
Being in love with a strong woman will be like nothing else you’ve
ever experienced, and she will take you to places you’ve never been
inside of yourself. To depths you’ve never even knew existed. She will
be your best friend, your confidant. She is wild and a free spirit that
cannot be tamed or caged. So encourage her to spread her wings and fly
beside you, because if you try to clip her wings, she will leave you in
Strong woman scare most men because they are still stuck in
the mentality of “provider” financially, but sorry guys, a strong woman
will require you to be a provider in ways money can’t buy:
Your Time, Your Effort, Your Energy, Your Respect, Your Support, Your
Encouragement, Your Loyalty, Your Character, Your Integrity, Your
Vulnerability, Your Ability To Compromise, Your Love, Your Empathy,
Having Her Back. For all of this she will give you and not think twice about it!
You might say, this is too much work, and it may be more work in the
long run for you. But trust me when I say, there’s nothing more worth it
in the end to have a strong woman by your side. Just ask any man who
loves a strong woman and he will tell you the same!
By ~ Tiffany Stiles