The big shift in your evolution from 3D to 5D happens when you realise that enlightenment is not about leaving the world and your human traits behind but about integrating your quirks, idiosyncrasies, weirdness and sore and sensitive spots into what makes you YOU.
That is your unique gift and the world need it.
It’s not about conforming, twisting, or shaping yourself to fit the collective norms but about being gloriously liberatingly yourself - that is your genius and your essential soul imprint.
You are not here to fit in, be well balanced or to conform to keep the peace or earn love.
You are here to be eccentric, different, perhaps strange, perhaps just to add your small piece, your little ragged self to the great mosaic of being.
You are here to become more and more your Self.